Why chicks cheat

You guys make it sound like you have to cheat. And you love to blame your wandering ways to genetics. Well, sit down, buddy, because according to most research, women are closing the
gender gap when it comes to fooling around. Some polls even claim upwards of 60 percent of women cheat on a mate.Why would she do such a thing? Well, it’s not her genes…

You Stopped Paying Attention

Of course she wanted to be your sex kitten when you were still plying her with compliments, planning romantic dinners, and surprising her with smooth sex moves. But now that you think you don’t need to buy her dinner to get her in bed, she’s wondering if she can’t do a little better than you.

You Changed…Or Your Relationship Did

You got meaner. Or messier. Or suddenly decided that getting your lazy butt off the couch long enough to grab another beer from the fridge was suitable exercise for the day. While it’s good to feel comfortable in your relationship, it doesn’t give you permission to let yourself go. Unless you want to let her go.

You Cheated On Her

You got busted banging some other babe and now your gal wants to get even. Sadly, some chicks see your infidelity as a “get out of jail free” card that lets her indulge her own cheatin’ heart without the consequences. There’s a simple prevention method here: Don’t cheat. And if you do, you’d better be unwaveringly reassuring in your feelings of remorse and reform. And maybe buy her something expensive and sparkly.

The Grass is Greener

Just like she’ll cheat on her diet to taste that eclair, she might be tempted to treat herself to that tasty new guy in her office just because he’s there and looking delicious. Maybe she’s bored. Or maybe he’s really the man of her dreams. (Hey, we said we’d tell you why women cheat; we didn’t say you’d like all the reasons).

She’s Just Evil

Some babes are just always looking out for the better deal. She could get off on the illicit thrill of flirting with the forbidden; she could just like toying with nice boys like you. Either way, your solutions are clear. Dump the dame or resign yourself to frequent screenings for STDs.

Five secrets chicks love to keep

Chick in SunglassesYou may think you know all the ins and outs of your best girl, but no matter how much your sweetie shares with you, there are still a few secrets she’s hiding. Allow us to reveal…

We let you fix stuff.
Frankly, I don’t know a single woman who can’t fix a clogged toilet or tell the difference between a flat and Phillips head screwdriver. But if it makes you happy to play Mr. Fixit, who are we to stop you? Besides, it can be fun rewarding our big, strong man for a job well done.

We get hit on more than you realize.
Your paranoid fears are valid. When we go out without you - or even when you’re just in the bathroom - we regularly get approached by some lecherous Lethario wanting to buy us drinks. We’d never dream of taking them up on their offers, so we don’t see reason to set free your possessive streak by telling you.

We’ve already decided if you’re marriage-material or not.
While women aren’t actively shopping for a Stepford husband, most of us do want to get married someday. And anyone who’s been dating for more than a few years has learned to determine a man’s potential as husband and father early in the game.

Chances are, if we’re still together, you’re looking pretty good, but, naturally we can’t tell you that for fear you’ll careen out of our lives with nary an “I’m-not-ready-for-a-serious-relationship.” Or maybe we just want a fling, but don’t want you to think we’re cheap. Or we’re just riding it out until we’re sure you’re not The One and don’t want you to know you’re being scrutinized.

We don’t have all the relationship answers.
Yes, we watch Oprah, spend hours psycho-analyzing you with our girlfriends, and love to throw out that therapy lingo in our discussions with you. We like you to think we know exactly what you’re doing wrong in our romance (and it is usually your fault, isn’t it?), but here’s a thought. If we knew this stuff, wouldn’t we no longer need to do it? The whole women’s magazine industry continues to thrive just because we still haven’t figured you boys out.

We’ve done at least one thing we really would rather you not know about.
It could be an infidelity, a past personal problem, or a family secret. Whatever the skeleton, the closet is under lock and key. I’d tell you more, but then I’d have to kill you.

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The sex that she really wants

Sexy CoupleThink you know what it takes to be her best ever? Not so fast. Unless you’re privy to these private thoughts, you’re still second best. Ready for the real deal on how to do her right?

Focus Pocus
It’s hard to rock her whole world if you’re only visiting a few erogenous zip codes. Kiss the back of her neck, stroke the curve of her waist. Wherever you roam, she just wants your attention on all of her, not just that spot or two you love so much. Southern Rock
She not only loves it when you give her a little oral attention, she really wants to do, well, a good job on you, too. She wants a little gentle direction and plenty of positive feedback - what feels best, why you like it, and when we push all the right buttons.

Passion Aggression
Contrary to what you might think, that girl of yours is tired of “making love” and being treated like a princess in bed. She wants to be ravished. She wants her clothes ripped off. Maybe in the ladies room of that fancy restaurant you’re having dinner at.

Chatty Charlie
No, we’re not talking sweet nothings here. She wants talk naughty enough to make a sailor blush. Talking more openly about what you - and she - love and loathe in bed will get all her secret desires out.

Solve the Puzzle
Here’s a shocker: women are different. Your ex might have swooned when you dipped your tongue in her ear, but your current chica might karate-chop you when you try. She doesn’t expect you to know just what makes her tick, but she does want you to try to figure it out.

Get your girlfriend into video games

Girlfriend Playing Video GameMany guys will be forced, at some point, to part with their beloved game console by supreme order of their bitchin’ counter-part. This can be avoided by using some proven tactics to gradually introduce video gaming into your relationship. You may not get her into Resident Evil, but she may end up playing some games you both can enjoy.

6 Steps

  1. Find out if your girlfriend has ever played video games before. She may not be a full-blown gamer, but maybe she played Mario games when she was younger. Or maybe she likes playing an Internet game from time to time. If you know her gaming history, you’ll have a better chance of finding a game she’ll enjoy now.
  2. Remind your girlfriend that if you both play video games, you’ll be able to spend even more quality time together.
  3. Pick out a game she might like. If you’re not 100% sure she’ll enjoy it, you can rent it.
    • Try to choose a game or game system that isn’t too confusing, and doesn’t require short reaction time. Many non-gamers are intimidated by button combinations. If you’ve ever gotten frustrated to the point of throwing the controller in a game, don’t start with that one.
    • If you can, get a game that is multi-player or, optimally, co-op.
    • Consider your girlfriend’s personality when picking out a game. Some girls may prefer the brightly colored, all-ages games like Katamari Damacy, Bust A Move, Lego Star Wars, Sims, or just about any Mario game. But remember that your girlfriend is an individual who could just as well go for Halo, Resident Evil, or Grand Theft Auto. In general, girls go more for games that involve good characterization and dramatic plotlines; even a modicum of these factors can make a game a lot more appealing for a girl. For instance, many girls won’t be interested in Soul Calibur 2 … but if you let a girl make a custom character in Soul Calibur 3 (maybe encouraging her to make up a story or background for that character), you might be surprised by her sudden surge of enthusiasm for learning that character’s moves.
    • Don’t get games that involve things like strippers, prostitutes, and sex. Unless she has a sense of humor about such things, she probably won’t like it.
  4. Have fun when you play with her. If you make it a good time she will enjoy it, even if she’s not that “into games.” Crack jokes, make her laugh, and focus primarily on spending time with her, not on winning the game at hand. Be prepared to help her out. Even if she’s only playing “easy” games, your girlfriend may get stuck and frustrated. As a gamer, you know one of the most frustrating things about video games is getting stuck. Helping her will not only avoid her getting frustrated and fed up with video games, but it will foster a sense of “playing together” and help her see what a great guy you are.
  5. Be understanding and supportive. When she first starts out, tell her that it’s easy, and that she will catch on. Make her feel like this is something that she can do. Let her win. Try not to show any signs of being annoyed that she can’t pass the 1st water zone for the 76th time in a row. As she keeps playing, she will get better and may enjoy the game itself.
  6. Next time you and your girlfriend are in a game shop, casually walk by the video game section and ask her if there is anything that catches her eye. She will probably say no at first without looking at any game, but coax her into it.

Helpful warnings

  • If you try to get your girlfriend into something you’re into that she’s not, she may feel justified in doing the same with you–attempting to show you the glory of motor mechanics, for example. If she’s a good sport, you should be, too.
  • If you get her into gaming, you might never get access to your computer or game console again.
  • If you’re the kind of person who shouts phrases with extremely violent cursing after losing a video game, try not to do so. It may show her that you’re not a very civil person. (Also, be prepared for her to reveal that she is not a very civil person by violently cursing after losing.)
  • When and if she starts to beat you on a consistent basis, do *NOT* stop playing the game with her, remember you wanted this. Nurture it.
  • Hot teachers gone wild; for students

    I’m sure I’m not the only one who’s been noticing all of the new cases in the news. What is it that attracts these gorgeous teachers to their teenage students? In my opinion; it makes them feel young, sexy, and naughty. The fact that they have to hide their sexual encounters is a turn on for them. I mean come on; who hasn’t got it on in the closet, back seat, or in a public place. They just take this sneaky fetish to a whole new level.

    I don’t think they should get 12 years in prison for their crimes (depending on the guys age.) For example, does it make sense to lock up a 26 year old woman up for over a decade because she slept with an 18 year old man ONLY because she was an authority to him in the school system. Yes it’s illegal and should be punished but maybe tone it down a little.

    Read on…

    Chronicles of the horny teachers

    Deanna Bobo: Despite her denials of sex with her 14-year-old student, this Arkansas mother of five was convicted and sentenced to 12 year in prison on two counts of first-degree sexual assault. As WND previously reported, Bobo allegedly had sex twice with a boy in his own bed while his parents were not home and possibly relations with three othe juveniles. “This is a proclivity on her part,” said the prosecutor.

    Adrianne Hockett: Accused of having sex with a 16-year-old special-needs student in a Houston apartment she rented for the get-togethers. The boy has testified the pair would “have sex, drink beer and smoke weed.”

    Amber Jennings, 31: Though Jennings was initially charged with having sex with a 16-year-old, the counts against the Sturbridge, Mass., woman were reduced to a single charge of disseminating harmful materials to a minor. She reportedly admitted e-mailing naked photos of herself to a former student. She received no jail time, only two years of probation after pleading guilty.

    Amber Marshall, 23: Northwest Indiana woman allegedly had sexual contact, including intercourse, with several students at Hebron High School, and turned herself into authorities, telling police she knew what she did was illegal.

    Amira Sa’Di, 30: Clayton County, Ga., woman remarked she didn’t think her relationship was inappropriate based on her Internet research, learning the Peach State’s age of consent is 16.

    Amy Gail Lilley, 36: Inverness, Fla., woman and softball coach at Lecanto High School charged with a lesbian relationship with a 15-year-old girl. She received no prison time, being sentenced to two years of house arrest and eight more years of probation.


    Amy McElhenny

    Amy McElhenney, 25: Charged with having a sexual relationship with an 18-year-old male student, the 25-year-old Hebron High School Spanish teacher and former Miss Texas contestant will not be serving any jail time after a Denton County, Texas, grand jury refused to issue an indictment. While the age of consent in Texas is 17 years, a state law bans sexual relationships between educators and students even if the student is of legal age and the relationship is consensual. She could have faced 20 years in prison if indicted and convicted.


    Angela Comer

    Angela Comer, 26: Middle-school teacher from Tompkinsville, Ky., fled with her alleged lover, her 14-year-old male student, before being tracked down in Mexico where she reportedly planned to marry the boy. She was indicted for illegal sex acts with a minor and returned to Kentucky. Charges include felony custodial interference, two counts of third-degree sodomy and four counts of unlawful transaction with a minor relating to sexual acts.

    Angela Stellwag, 24: Delran, N.J., woman accused of having sex in her apartment with a 14-year-old boy she met in school. She was charged with sexual assault for activity that allegedly took place in August 2004. She pleaded not guilty in August 2006.

    Beth Raymond, 31: Private-school employee from Pownal, Maine, charged with risk of injury to a minor and second-degree sexual assault of a juvenile male at Eagle Hill School in Greenwich, Conn. In July 2006, she was sentenced to 18 months prison.

    Bethany Sherrill, 24: Daughter-in-law of school-board president charged with molesting a 15-year-old middle-school student. Reports state Sherill allegedly had oral sex with the boy and sent him coded text messages. She resigned her position at Jefferson Elementary School in Farmington, Mo., and eventually received 90 days in jail and two years probation, and was forced to register as a sex offender.


    Cameo Patch

    Cameo Patch, 29: Substitute teacher at Tooele High School in Tooele, Utah, arrested for allegedly performing oral sex on a 17-year-old male student. The sexual activity was allegedly consensual, and reportedly took place off school grounds after the pair had exchanged phone numbers in a restaurant. She was sentenced to no jail time, despite comments from the judge that a man would have likely gone to prison.

    Celeste Emerick, 32: Police in Huber Heights, Ohio, say the Wayne High School teacher hosted a party where students were shown pornography. Prosecutors charged her with one count of sexual battery, a felony in Ohio.

    Christina Gallagher, 26: Jersey City, N.J., woman received no jail time, but was ordered to pay more than $1,000 in fines, sentenced to a lifetime registration as a convicted sex offender and ordered to attend therapy for having sex with a 17-year-old student in late 2004. The former Rahway High School instructor was banned from teaching and seeing the student with whom she had sex.

    Christine Duda, 39: Teacher at the Normandy Alternative School in St. Louis County, Mo., allegedly took a 16-year-old hearing-impaired male student to her home for sex in December 2005. She was charged with two counts of felony statutory rape and fired by the school district.

    Christine Scarlett, 36: English teacher at Strongsville High School in Ohio began a sexual relationship with the 17-year-old captain of the football team, Steven Bradigan, in November 2002 and eventually gave birth to Bradigan’s son. Scarlett was fired from her teaching job, but insists nothing improper happened during the time she was Bradigan’s teacher. She was never charged with any criminal wrongdoing.

    Deanna Bobo, 37: Special-education teacher at Raymond E. Wells Junior High School in Greenwood, Ark., allegedly had sex twice in 2005 with a 14-year-old boy in his own bed while his parents were not home. She denied the charge, but was convicted in September 2006 of two counts of first-degree sexual assault and sentenced to 12 years in prison.

    Debra LaFave, 25: Tampa, Fla., area teacher received no jail time despite having sex with her 14-year-old male student in a classroom and her Hillsborough County home. In another county, Marion, she was accused of having sex with the boy in an SUV. LaFave claimed at a March 2006 news conference she had a bipolar disorder. The boy’s father said LaFave should have received prison time in her plea deal, noting, “It’s a horrible, ugly thing that she’s done.”

    Diane DeMartini-Scully, 45: Mattituck, N.Y., woman was the school psychologist at East Hampton Middle School on Long Island when she was accused of having sex with the 16-year-old boyfriend of her own 13-year-old daughter. She allegedly had intercourse and oral sex with the boy on a number of occasions in May 2005 in her home and car. She was arrested after allegedly secretly visiting her young paramour at his new home in North Carolina.

    Donna Carr Galloway, 33: Married mother of two found naked in a car with a 17-year-old student.

    Elisa Kawasaki, 25: Biology teacher from Fresno, Calif., area, pleaded no contest to sex with a teen boy, and prosecutors dropped four other counts.

    Elizabeth Miklosovic, 36: Grand Rapids, Mich., teacher at South Haven’s Baseline Middle School pleaded no contest to sexually assaulting a 14-year-old female student she “married” in a pagan ritual in June 2004. Miklosovic is also accused of touching the girl’s genitals while camping in public parks. She told the judge before sentencing, “The entire ordeal has been blown totally out of proportion for something that was innocent, kind and nurturing in nature.” She was sentenced to five to 25 years.

    Elizabeth Stow, 26: Tulare Western High School teacher from Fresno, Calif., area convicted of having sex with three of her students was sentenced to nine years, but the judge suspended that sentence and gave her one year, followed by five years of probation. She was also ordered to register as a sex offender.

    Ellen Garfield, 43: Former student at Solomon Schecter School in Newton, Mass., said his music teacher took him into an empty classroom where she worked, partially disrobed, and coaxed him into having sex with her in 1998. Garfield was acquitted of all charges in September 2005.

    Emily Morris, 28: Teacher at Leeds High School in St. Clair County, Ala., faced a possible 20-year sentence, but received one year in jail for having consensual sex with a 15-year-old student.

    Erica Rutters, 29: Teacher at Oxford Christian Academy in New Oxford, Pa., allegedly wrote erotic messages to a 16-year-old student and had sexual intercourse with him four times in her apartment. She pleaded guilty to corruption of a minor, and received no jail time, just three years of probation in March 2006.

    Georgianne Harrell, 24: Teacher at Holley Elementary School in Sylvester, Ga., charged with performing oral sex on a 9-year-old boy in April 2005, allowing students to gaze down her blouse and slashing her wrists with glass in front of her students. Though she originally pleaded not guilty, she changed her plea to guilty just before trial, and was sentenced to 25 years in prison for aggravated child molestation.

    Gwen Cardozo, 33: Teacher at Wasson High School in Colorado Springs, Colo., accused of having sex with a 17-year-old male student. Police charged her with sexual assault on a child by one in a position of trust, and Cardozo resigned her position in March 2005. She pleaded guilty in July 2005 and received a deferred sentence, meaning no jail time if she remains trouble-free for four years.

    Heather Ingram, 30: Mathematics, science and business teacher at Chatelech Secondary School in Sechelt, British Columbia, had sex with a 17-year-old student. The relationship cost Ingram her job and reportedly led to the breakup of her 12-year common-law marriage to a man four years her senior.

    Jacquelyn Faith Garrison, 19: Substitute teacher at South Central High School in Winterville, N.C., was indicted in January 2006 on charges she was having an improper relationship with a 15-year-old student. The case involves some 50 phone calls and text messages exchanged between Garrison and the boy, who reportedly became uncomfortable when things of a sexual nature came up.

    Janelle Marie Bird, 24: Accused of having a two-year affair with a 15-year-old student from East Hill Christian School, in Pensacola, Fla. Declaring her love for the boy, she was charged with two counts of lewd and lascivious battery and two counts of unlawful sexual activity with a minor. Though Bird could have received 30 years upon conviction, she was sentenced in 2006 to two years in state prison.


    Jaymee Wallace


    Jaymee Wallace, 28:
    Basketball coach in Tampa, Fla., charged with having an 18-month lesbian relationship with a student. Authorities say the student, who was 15 when she met Wallace, voluntarily had sex with the coach more than 50 times, in a parking lot at Busch Gardens and often at Wallace’s own apartment while a fellow classmate was in an adjacent room. According to the police report, the sexual relationship reportedly began in early 2003, after the student received a note from Wallace saying she “found her attractive and wanted to know if she felt the same way.”

    Joan Marie Sladky, 28: Redwood City, Calif., woman sentenced to six months in county jail for having sex with a 16-year-old student after pleading no contest to four counts of unlawful sexual intercourse, oral copulation and penetration with a foreign object. The Spanish teacher’s relationship with the boy spanned six months, as she reportedly had sex with him once at his home and three times at her residence, which was on the property of the private Baptist church and school where she taught.

    Katherine Tew, 30: Married English teacher from Greenville, N.C., arrested for having sex with a 17-year-old boy. She taught at South Central High School in Winterville, N.C., and was convicted of taking indecent liberties with a child, but found not guilty of the more serious sex charge. She was not given prison time, and lost her teaching license for at least two years.

    Kathy White, 39: Teacher at Lumberton High School in Lumberton, Texas, charged with having sex with a 17-year-old student. The victim, Michael Ferguson, alleges: “She just started grabbing me and hormones were on and it just happened.” Ferguson provided KBTV-TV with an e-mail allegedly sent by White, in which the teacher told him, “I get these cravings for YOU and that’s not NORMAL! If I had it my way, I’d do you once a week just because it’s good.”

    Kelly Lynn Dalecki, 28: Elementary-school teacher from St. Augustine, Fla., pleaded no contest to charges she had sex with a 13-year-old boy in 2003. The boy’s parents reportedly found more than 50 sexually explicit e-mails and pornographic pictures allegedly sent by Dalecki on his computer. Dalecki was sentenced to nearly a year in prison.


    Kristen Margrif

    Kristen Margrif, 27: Mayville, Mich., teacher accused of having sex with a 16-year-old male student in her car or at his summer workplace in June and July 2005. She was given a one-year delayed sentence in June 2006 on three felony counts of second-degree criminal sexual conduct with a student, meaning she’ll only have to serve probation if she remains trouble-free for a year.

    Lakina Stutts, 40: School-bus driver admitted to cops she had sex with a 14-year-old student in her home and in a car outside the boy’s home.

    Laura-Anne Brownlee, 26: Former music mistress at a top private school in Belfast, N. Ireland, was given a six-month suspended sentence on charges of indecently assaulting a 15-year-old boy.

    Laura Lynn Findlay, 30: Band teacher at Ricker Middle School in Buena Vista Township, Mich., charged with having sex with at least 5 students, one as young as 14. She was sentenced in August 2006 to at least seven and as much as 25 years in prison.

    Lynn Saunders, 38: A former basketball star at the College of Staten Island, the gym teacher at St. Paul’s School in New Brighton, N.Y., was arrested in March 2005 for allegedly molesting a 12-year-old girl whose family she had befriended. Saunders admitted to touching the girl’s breasts and genital area on several dates in February 2005. She received no jail time, only probation and registration as a sex offender. The family is now suing Saunders and the Archdiocese of New York, claiming the girl became suicidal and still suffers from “severe emotional shock, trauma, embarrassment, anxiety and other psychological injuries.”


    Margaret De Barraicua

    Margaret De Barraicua, 30: Sacramento, Calif., area woman arrested after police found her having sex with a 16-year-old male student in her car while the woman’s toddler was strapped into a seat in the back. She pleaded guilty to four felony counts of statutory rape and was sentenced to a year in jail and five years formal probation.

    Maria Saco, 28: Math teacher at Lincoln Middle School in Passaic, N.J., sentenced in 2005 to a year in jail for an intimate relationship with a teen student who was 14 when they first met. Saco reportedly gave the boy a key to her apartment.

    Mary Kay Letourneau, 34: Des Moines, Wash., teacher did prison time after having sex with a sixth-grade student, Vili Fualaau, in 1996 and eventually had two children by him. She originally had Fualaau in her second-grade class at Shorewood Elementary School in Burien, Wash. The couple has since married.

    Melissa Michelle Deel, 32: Bristol, Tenn., teacher at Virginia Middle School pleaded guilty to crossing the state line into Virginia to have oral sex with a 13-year-old male student. As part of her plea agreement, Deel agreed never to profit from the crime, as well as have no contact with the boy and his family without court permission. She was sentenced to a year and two months prison.

    Michelle Kush, 29: Substitute teacher at Boone County High School in Florence, Ky., allegedly had sex with a 15-year-old boy several times during summer break. She was charged with two counts of rape and one sodomy count. In August 2006, Kush was sentenced to 60 days in jail, 30 days on house arrest and five years probation.

    Nicola Prentice, 22: British woman from Sheffield, England, given a 12-month suspended jail sentence after she seduced a 16-year-old student and began a 19-month affair.


    Nicole Barnhart

    Nicole Andrea Barnhart, 35: Highlands Ranch, Colo., woman reportedly told police she loves the 16-year-old boy with whom she was having sex. A teacher at Ponderosa High School, she pleaded guilty to felony sexual assault on a child, resulting in a two-year prison sentence and a minimum of 10 years in a sex-offender probation program.


    Nicole Long

    Nicole Long, 29: English teacher at Ayersville High School in Ohio resigned her teaching post after being accused of raping a 17-year-old boy. She pleaded guilty in January 2005 to a charge of sexual battery, and was sentenced in March to three months in jail.

    Nicole Pomerleau, 31: English teacher at Olympic High School in Charlotte, N.C., arrested in March 2004 for allegedly having a sexual relationship with her 16-year-old student. The age of consent in North Carolina is 16, but teachers having sex with students is an exception to the law. Though Pomerleau admitted the affair, she got no prison time and did not have to register as a sex offender.

    Pamela Smart, 22: Media-services director at Winnacunnet High School in Hampton, N.H., had convinced her 15-year-old lover to murder her husband. She was arrested in 1993 and is now serving a life sentence. The Nicole Kidman film “To Die For” is based on her story.

    Pamela Rogers Turner, 27: Former model and beauty-pageant contestant also taught at Centertown Elementary School in McMinnville, Tenn. She was arrested in February 2005 for allegedly having a three-month sexual relationship with a 13-year-old boy. She resigned her teaching position and was charged with 15 counts of sexual battery and 13 counts of statutory rape. Originally sentenced to 270 days in August 2005, she got in additional trouble in April 2006 for sending text messages, nude photos, and sex videos of herself to the same boy while using her father’s cellphone. In July 2006, she was sentenced to seven years for violating her probation.

    Rachelle Vantucci, 32: Ex-substitute teacher from Geneseo, N.Y., admitted having sex with a 16-year-old boy she met at a local riding stable. After pleading guilty, Vantucci agreed to surrender her teaching license and register as a sex offender.

    Rebecca Boicelli, 33: Redwood City, Calif., woman gave birth to a baby last year and DNA test results gave prosecutors enough evidence to prove the father is Boicelli’s former student, who was 16 at the time of conception. She was sentenced to two years in prison.

    Rhianna Ellis, 24: Social-studies teacher at the High School for Health Professions and Human Services in Manhattan, N.Y., allegedly began a 10-month sexual relationship with an 17-year-old player on the school’s basketball team, and reportedly gave birth to his baby. The teen boy even introduced Ellis to his parents, never indicating she was his teacher.

    Robin Gialanella, 26: Teacher at Silver Bay Elementary School in Toms River, N.J., engaged in kissing, and inappropriate conduct and conversations with two sixth-grade boys, ages 11 and 12, in 2003 and 2004. She was sentenced to 364 days in jail with psychotherapy, must register as a sex offender, will be under lifetime supervision and must surrender her New Jersey teaching certificate.

    Robin Winkis, 29: English teacher at Central York High School in York, Pa., allegedly had sex with a 17-year-old boy after giving him alcohol. Authorties accused her of five alleged sex acts during October and November 2005. She pleaded guilty as part of a deal, and was sentenced to two to 23 months in jail.

    Samantha Solomon, 29: Guidance counselor at the High School for Health Professions and Human Services in Manhattan, N.Y. was fired after school bosses learned she was having sex with a teenage boy. She denies the allegations, attributing them to rumors gone wild.

    Sandra “Beth” Geisel, 42: English teacher at Christian Brothers Academy, an all-boys school in Albany, N.Y., allegedly had sex three times with a 16-year-old male student in May 2005, including once on school grounds in the football stadium’s press box. Originally indicted in September for three counts of third degree rape, she pleaded guilty to a single count of rape and was sentenced to six months in jail, and ranked as a Level 1 sex offender, the lowest risk.

    Shelley Allen, 35: Teacher’s aide from Cherokee County, Texas, was arrested in June 2005. Allen was charged with sexual assault of a child and faces a possible 20 years behind bars.

    Shelley White, 24: Geography teacher in Britain had been engaged to be married before she kissed a 15-year-old student on at least three occasions. She avoided jail, but received 12 months community service.

    Stephanie Burleson: Volleyball coach and teacher at Floresville High School in Texas six years ago, pleaded guilty to all charges for molesting a 16-year-old female student. She was sentenced to 10 years probation, and required to register as a sex offender.

    Susan Eble, 35: Former teacher’s aide is accused of having a sexual relationship with a 14-year-old boy.

    Tara Lynn Crisp, 29: Police allege she had sex with a student at least three times beginning when he was 14.

    Toni Lynn Woods, 37: Middle-school teacher in Braxton County, W.Va., confessed in 2005 to having sexual intercourse with three juveniles a total of four times and oral sex with one of those juveniles and another juvenile a total of four times. She reportedly described herself as a “monster” when she pleaded guilty. She resigned, surrendered her teaching certificate, and was given consecutive sentences of one-to-five years on four counts of third-degree sexual assault.

    Traci Tapp, 28: Gym teacher at Hammonton High School in New Jersey accused of sexual contact with three male students, including having sex in her home multiple times in one night with a 16-year-old. In January 2006, she avoided any jail or probation time by admitting inappropriate touching, but she lost her teaching license.

    via worldnetdaily

    Catch your girlfriend or wife cheating

    young couple You’re in a great relationship with a gorgeous girl and it seems to be a two way street - she wouldn’t be unfaithful to you, or would she? A cheating girlfriend or wife is a concern that haunts many men in relationships, and just the thought of your girl putting her hands on another man makes your blood boil.

    So how can you spot a cheater and how do you fix it?

    signs of a cheating girlfriend or wife

    Although there are signs that can indicate that your girlfriend is two-timing you, the thing to keep in mind is that you’re looking for a change in her behavior patterns. The key to spotting a cheating wife or girlfriend is change , so if she’s always been a guy’s girl and has a lot of male friends, don’t get all paranoid when you hear that she was seen with her friend Max at the movies, for example.

    The following are 5 signs that she may be letting someone else taste her pudding:

    1- She’s no longer as needy
    If she was never able to go shopping, exercise, or cross the street alone, and she suddenly doesn’t need your company, it may mean that someone else is filling your shoes. It’s possible that she just needs time to herself, but if she’s unusually independent when she used to be overly needy, it may signal that she’s just no longer as needy… of you.

    2- She no longer gets angry
    She used to get angry if you didn’t want to meet her for lunch or come out with her and her friends, but now everything you do is all right by her. Once upon a time, your every move had to be premeditated, but now all the small things you used to mess up aren’t enraging her. This could be a good thing, but you wonder why she no longer cares.

    3- She’s being secretive
    She’s no longer sharing her daily events with you, and in order to find out what she’s doing, you’d have to break open her diary because she’s not volunteering any information regarding the goings-on of her life. Of course, you could always ask…

    4- She places the focus on you
    When you do ask her questions, she turns the tables on you. The former chatterbox’s batteries have run out and when you ask her how her night was, mum’s the only word. It’s now all about you, you, you, rather than “I did this” and “I went here last night.”

    5- She showers you with pleasure
    Now that it’s all about you, your girlfriend is always complimenting you, asking you to go out, giving you “I love you” cards for no reason whatsoever, and even offering to wash your car and watch the boxing match with you. While these gestures are more than sweet, it’s this kind of overcompensating behavior that can make one suspicious. If she’s bombarding you with niceties, it might be nice to know what’s really going on.

    get to the bottom of things

    As I said earlier, these signs aren’t the be-all end-all that she’s been unfaithful. Change is the most important factor that must be evaluated if you find yourself suspicious of her, so look at how she used to be, and how she is now.

    If she’s spending less time with you, for example, it could either mean that she’s avoiding you because she feels guilty for her actions, or she just doesn’t care to spend as much time with you. The latter could be a sign of cheating, but it may also be the cause of why .

    how to handle it

    Now there’s no need to get all paranoid and suspicious. If you think that her recent behavior isn’t adding up or you catch her lying, then do not accuse her of cheating. Think about whether she’s given you a reason to believe that she’s two-timing you, or whether it’s your imagination running wild because you’re afraid of losing her.

    You have a feeling
    If you think she may be cheating, approach her but don’t bring up the cheating. Ask her if everything is okay, and tell her that she’s been acting different lately. Give her examples of how her behavior has changed, and tell her that you want to know and understand if there’s a reason.

    You want to open the lines of communication and encourage her to open up about what is troubling her in the relationship, and proceed from there. Approaching a cheater can be a delicate situation.

    You have more than a sneaking suspicion
    If you have adequate reason to believe that she’s cheating on you, do not accuse or threaten her because if you’re wrong, she’ll feel that you really don’t trust her. Rather than exclaiming, “I know what’s going on!” or “Who have you been messing around with?”, ask, “Is there something I should know about?” or “I have reason to believe that you’re not being 100% honest with me.”

    This may seem passive, but you want to approach the topic carefully because if you’re wrong, you may be messing up big time. But if you’re right, then you have permission to raise Cain.

    You catch her or have concrete evidence
    If there is no way that this is a misunderstanding and you are positive that she’s been pawing another dog, then you can approach her with more assertion. Tell her what you saw, how it makes you feel, and what you plan to do about it.

    once a cheater…

    Crying WomanBeing unfaithful in a relationship is horrible, but there is a bigger picture here. You have to realize that a cheating girlfriend may be the result of a problem in your relationship. If she’s deceiving you by getting cuddly with another man, it could mean that she is going elsewhere to find what your relationship lacks, which doesn’t make her actions right, only less despicable.

    forgive and forget

    If you discover that she cheated on you, there are a few questions you must ask yourself:

  • Can you trust her again?If the answer is No:
    You can’t get back together.If the answer is Yes:
    It may take time, but you can give it another try. You’ll have to tell her that it’ll be hard to trust her, but with her help and time, it can happen.
  • Why do you think she did it?If she doesn’t tell you why:
    You’ll have to evaluate whether you can still forgive her.If it has to do with your relationship:
    When you’re ready, you can work on the problems in your relationship.
  • Is your relationship worth another try? If you can move past her deceit and give her another chance, then when you’re ready, sit down, talk to her, and try to understand why she did it. There may be no reason at all (it could just be the fault of stupidity with a pinch of vodka), but if there is a reason why she cheated on you, then ignoring why she did it can lead it to happen again — and then you’ll be cheating yourself.We all make mistakes, which doesn’t make cheating acceptable, but if she shows remorse for her actions and if she’s worth the effort of giving it another shot, then you can forgive although you may need more time to forget.

    via AskMen

  • Sex 101; ten things you didn’t know.

    Sex 101 ChickSome true and pretty damn interesting facts and statistics about america’s favorite pass time. Shit, number 5 even gives you an excuse for not delivering your girls toe curling orgasm anymore.

    1. The typical lovemaking session lasts around 15 minutes: roughly 10 to 12 minutes of foreplay and around 3 to 5 minutes of intercourse.

    2. Humans aren’t the only horny members of the animal kingdom doing it just for fun. Dolphins and a type of chimpanzee called the bonobo have also been observed engaging in sexual activity when they are not in their natural reproductive cycles.

    3. While Viagra has made erectile dysfunction (affecting 10 to 12 percent of men) a household phrase, the opposite problem — premature ejaculation — is more common (affecting 24 to 27 percent of men). The U.S. Food and Drug Administration is currently reviewing a drug called dapoxetine as a cure for this problem.

    4. Crank up that thermostat… orgasms may be more intense in warmer conditions. The degree of vasocongestion, reddening or darkeing of the skin known as the “sex flush,” is both more common in warmer temperatures and an indication of how intense an orgasm may be.

    5. If a woman experiences orgasm during sex, she is more likely to become pregnant, since orgasmic spasms in pelvic muscles help move sperm up the vaginal canal to the uterus.

    6. Homosexuality is not unique to humans. Many species have been observed engaging in homosexual activity, and in fact male bats have the highest rate of homosexuality of all mammals.

    7. On any given day 400,000,000 people around the world — 1 in 17 of us — will have sexual intercourse. Broken down further, 4,000 people are having sex at any given time.

    8. Sex cures headaches. Endorphins released into our bloodstream when we have sex not only give us pleasure but also act as painkillers. Useful information to whip out the next time your partner uses a headache as a reason to say no.

    9. Many elderly can and do have frequent sex. At age 70, 73% of males are still potent, and 30% of women 80 or older have still have sex.

    10. 70% of women would rather eat choclate than have sex.

    via The Digital Beat, The Kinsey Report, Wikipedia, American Urology Association

    Scoring with every chick

    In hopes of helping you single guys (and the players) get laid I wanted to share some good research that Menshealth has published. They completed a study on the 12 stages of seduction. I’m not gunna get into the science of the shit - just straight down to business. A total of 1000 chicks participated so its gotta be somewhat true.

    Best way to get it started
    Surprisingly, 53% of the chicks fall for the straight forward approach. They don’t look for the cutsy creative little things that we all try to pull off. Keep it simple and you’ll get her out with you. Example - I think you’re great, lets have dinner. You free on Friday night? Keep in mind that your confidence level counts; don’t be so damn confident that you seem certain she’ll go for it. She’ll sense that and probably shamelessly shoot you down.

    Keep it going after dinner
    The last thing you wanna do is invite her right back to your place (unless she’s literally asking for it.) 54% of the women said they prefer building up intimacy in stages so try to keep it slow cowboy. Ease your way into things, suggest going to a really good ice cream place around the corner.

    Fork in the road
    At this point, you’ll need to decide whether or not she seems open for going back to your place (or hers.) Watch for small signs of attraction, if she holds your arm during the night or touches your leg at dinner. As small as they might seem, these are your deciding factors. If you decide its a go, take the chance and suggest renting a DVD or having a drink to end out the night. If she declines don’t push it (or you’ll risk crashing burning this one for good.)

    Buddy, you’re almost set.
    67% of the women said that once they’re back your place, they’re 75% ready. Now, most of the battle is left up to your state of your place. Make sure your bathroom is half way decent and that you’re walls aren’t empty. Pictures and photos make you seem warm and connected. 70% want a chance to relax and talk first, don’t jump on her. That first move or kiss is always instense so try your best to lighten up the mood. If she’s chattering away and coming up with new conversations, she’s not ready.

    Move in, slowly.
    61% of the women said a short and sweet kiss to start is better (Save your best tongue technique for later.) Kiss gently around her mouth, face, neck, and ears. Follow her lead from here. Pay attention to her passion levels, if she’s just itching to move on go with it. You’ve gotta let it escalate naturally. Remember your physics, for every action there’s a reaction (this could never be more important.)

    via Menshealth